Spanking Guide

Spanking Guide
 

Erotic spanking is a form of sensation play, within the BDSM culture (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadomasochism). Those who are into erotic spanking like the sensual feel of spanking, hitting, or slapping a person’s body, usually the buttocks, thighs, or calves.

Choosing Spanking Implements

Use good spanking implements. There are leather paddles with a heart shaped opening and a classic leather paddle with a studded design, a retaining strap, and plenty of wack! It could be very sexy and fun to use a flogging whip, and to alternate between whipping and brushing the whip’s leather straps lightly over the spanked skin.

Emphasize Safety And Security, Always

The person being spanked is always the one in control, even though most people would not think that is the case. Safety and security are most important when engaged in erotic spanking sessions. Both people should choose to use “safe words” – words to speak when the sex play is getting a little out of hand. Good communication is essential, such as the spanker asking if the spanking is hard enough or too hard and the spankee saying that it is or it isn’t. The questions serve the purpose of being both arousing and informative. Ask questions such as “Do you like this?” “Harder?” “Faster?” “Slower?”

Try Different Positions And Vary Your Spanking Technique

There are many and various positions in which spanking may be done, such as over the knees or across the lap (the most popular position), stooped over a chair or couch, on hands and knees, and lying face down on the bed. Are you role-playing, such as teacher/student? As an example, the spankee could lean over a desk while the spanker smacks his/her arse with a paddle.

It is good to vary the sensations. Spank hard and soft, and then rub the fingers along the skin. Massage the recently spanked area for extra sensation. Scratch in between spankings. Give him a blowjob or hand job while spanking his arse. Suck or lick her nipples while spanking her. Talk dirty, very dirty. Tease him/her with sexy questions, such as “Is that good enough for you?” and “Who has been a bad boy?” If you vary your technique, the spanking will feel even hotter and sexier.

How to End The Spanking Session

When ending the spanking session, make sure both partners are aware that it is stopping. Try counting down from ten, or giving a rub down with one of Sex Centre’s massage oils, and then putting the paddles away. Above all, enjoy yourself and have fun.