Your First Sex Toy

Your First Sex Toy
 

Most of us will come to that day where we have made the decision to buy our very first sex toy. That can be quite a nerve-racking experience, but relax. We have a guide that should help you make an informed decision.

How Much Money Should I Spend?

The shape of your wallet will likely determine the number and type of sex toys you purchase. If you have a limited budget, choose sex toys that suit your most urgent sexual desires. Choose vibrators if clitoral stimulation drives you wilder than other sex play. Buy anal beads or a prostate massager if you are extremely turned on by anal play. Don't let your budget depress you, since there are plenty of sex toys in a wide variety of prices that will work well with your budget, what ever size it is.

What Shape Should I Choose?

Well, do you want a dildo that is the splitting image of John Holmes's dick or do you want more subtle sex toys like the Neon Vibe? The shape you choose will determine what you want to do with your sex toy, and where you plan to take it. If you are afraid airline personnel will pull your sex toys out of your luggage, go with a discreet vibrator or one that looks like a personal massager. The Life Saver looks like, guess – “Life Saver” lollies.

What Colour Should I Choose?

Maybe you will choose to colour coordinate all your sex toys. Choose only blue or pink ones. If you like the look of glass dildos, the design and pretty colours may also appeal to you. Do you prefer the softer pastels, or the more masculine looking darker colours? Or does colour matter to you at all?

What Material Is Best For Me?

Sex toys come in a wide variety of materials such as steel, jelly-rubber, silicone, rubber, plastics, glass, PVC, or Loveskin. You should choose a material that you like the best and you think will suit you! Steel and glass is great if you seek that hard and solid feeling. Glass can also be heated up (in warm water) or cooled down (in the fridge) for different hot and cold sensations. Jelly is a very popular choice, it is solid, but feels soft on your skin. Cyberskin or Loveskin (are really the same thing) is the most realistic feeling material of all. Loveskin does require a little extra care and only ever use a non-silicone based lubricant.

What Size Sex Toy Is Best For A Beginner, Especially For Anal Sex?

It's best to choose the smaller sex toys for your first time, especially if you are new to anal sex. This just stands to reason and common sense. Both butt plugs and prostate massagers can come in several sizes. Dildos and vibrators also come in small, medium, and large sizes to accommodate your sexual needs and desires. Start off small, and work your way up.

Should I Buy A Classic Sex Toy Or A More Adventurous One?

There is the classic sex toy range, or the more adventurous range such as the Rabbit Pearl.  Both have made millions of women happy, so you have that great reputation to go by. If you are feeling adventurous, why not go and buy a waterproof vibrator? That way, you can enjoy your sex play in the hot tub or shower. A classic anal toy is a small butt plug. If you want to experiment a bit more, large anal beads could be exactly what you need.

Do I Want Sex Toys That Give Clitoral Or Vaginal Stimulation? Or Both?

Women need clitoral stimulation to come to orgasm. Some women claim that they have phenomenal orgasms when their G-spot is massaged. Vibrators exist that stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot simultaneously. While there are fewer nerve endings in the vagina, many women still like that full feeling they get when they are penetrated by vibrators and dildos. When they cum, they will grab onto the sex toys like there's no tomorrow.

Do I Want A Toy For Myself Or Would I Like To Share It With A Partner?

Whether you want to use your sex toy alone or with a partner determines which sex toys you should buy. While vibrators may be used with a partner, most often they are used alone. Still, don't limit a sex toy's use. Vibrators are used to stimulate the clit, the labia, the anus, the feet, the face, and the nipples. Flavoured and warming lubes are used with partners, and they are romantic and lots of fun. Some sex toys, such as double dildos, are used with sex partners. Bondage gear such as harnesses made to hold dildos are made to be used with partners as well. Don’t forget to properly clean your sex toys after using, and especially when using with a partner.

What About Sex Toys For Anal Play? What Kinds Are Available?

If you are new to anal play, a small butt plug is a good bet. You may purchase one at a larger size at a later date. Experienced anal sex fans enjoy anal beads and prostate massagers. Some anal sex toys rub against the perineum as well as massage the prostate, giving unbearably pleasurable sexual feelings to the lucky guy using them.